Every person’s “moment” is different. That is, the moment you realize that sex with your long term partner isn’t what you hoped or expected. The cause of sexual unhappiness is extensive and can include:
oYour partner isn’t as interested in sex as you hoped
o Either of you not willing to try new things
o Either of you don’t have the knowledge to know what to try
o Either of you don’t know how to initiate or communicate wants
o Both being too tired, too busy, too distracted, too fill in the blank
o Either of you have past issues that need to be worked through
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Any long term relationship can function without sex. However, for many couples an inability to have fulfilling sex on a consistent basis is a sure way to slowly drive a wedge between them.
In fact, when sex isn’t a functional part of a relationship it can suck up to 65 to 70% from a relationship; conversely when couples feel sexually fulfilled it adds about 15 to 20% vitality to their relationship.
It makes a lot of sense that if you’re choosing to be with your partner for the rest of your life forsaking all others, then you should enjoy and have fun, intimacy, sensuality and great sex.
Do You Avoid Communication Around Sex?
For those too ashamed to have someone help their sexual situation, getting sex back on track can be an arduous task. The average person isn’t equipped with the right tools to know how to get out of a sticky situation.
Most couples have little to zero communication around and if they do it has been the cause of fights and hard feelings. Talking about sex comes to mean having a nasty fight—and couples don’t want the frustration and hassle. So instead, they walk on egg shells, never discuss and fall deeper down a not-enjoying-my sex life abyss.
Negative communication loops around sex are almost impossible to navigate and get out of.
Sex Coaching Can Help
What sex coaching can do for you and your partner is:
o start a productive conversation
o mediate between wants, needs and desires
o suggest ways to make your sex life more interesting
o create a game plan to ensure great sex for many years to come
o help make sex a welcome priority in your relationship
What sex coaching won’t do:
o take sides with one partner
o provide therapy to aid in a sexual dysfunction or help you deal with a sex-negative issue such as marital infidelity or rape.
o keep you being a victim to your sexual circumstance
Sex Coaching Saves You Time
Trying to wade through your own sexual challenges is possible; however, it most likely will take a lot of time. A trained professional will assess your circumstance and immediately get to the heart of the matter.
Sex Coaching Saves You Effort
To understand what you’re going through it will be necessary to read books, go on the internet (to dubious information), understand the what, when and how your relationship went sideways. A trained professional will give a homework that is specific to your situation that will help move your situation forward.
Sex Coaching Saves You Unnecessary Heartache
Not having an impartial third person mediator will probably cause you to have a lot of unnecessary fights, hurt feelings. This will not only slow up the process but add more to the pile of things you need to sort out with your mate.
But How Much Will It Cost?
The big question that always stops some couples from moving forward is: How much will this cost? Too bad really because a little bit of money invested in your relationship can pay huge dividends for your couple happiness for many years.
If you look at this in extreme, the cost of divorce due to irreconcilable differences around sex can be financially devastating. Otherwise, it is the “cost” of strain on your relationship.
A few sessions, depending on the state of your sex life, can see you and your partner shedding that weighty expense.